Committing To Your Goals

Committing To Your Goals

Have you ever set a goal and not achieved it?  Most people have experienced that at one time or another.  In fact, it’s quite common for people to get stuck in an endless cycle of setting goals and then quitting them shortly afterwards – and accomplishing nothing at all.  Why do so many people do this?


One of the biggest reasons is a lack of commitment to their goal.  Without commitment, a goal will gradually shrink in importance, and the temptation to quit will seem much more attractive, especially when obstacles cause setbacks and delays.  On the other hand, if you make a serious commitment and then continually remind yourself of it, you’ll be much more likely to persevere and achieve the goal.  It’s all about what you choose to focus on in this instance.  Your goals or your obstacles.


Here’s how to commit to your goals:


1)            First and foremost, you have to make sure that every goal you set is of VITAL importance to you.  This can be tricky because we so often fool ourselves into thinking we want one thing when we want something entirely different.  Take some time with this part of the process and be sure that you get down to the nitty gritty of what you really want.  Ask yourself the following questions…

  • Why do you want it?
  • What will it do for you?
  • What positive things will it bring to your life?
  • How will it help you?
  • How will it make you feel when it’s accomplished?


Write all of this down and keep it handy so you can refer to it as often as necessary if you feel your commitment beginning to slip.


Ask yourself if your goal is worth the effort and sacrifice that will be needed to achieve it.  If you can honestly answer yes, you are on the way!


2)            Think about what will happen if you don’t follow through.  Would nothing much happen if you don’t achieve your goal?  If not, then you need to raise the stakes!  You have to make your goal the most important thing in the world, and if you don’t do it, you’ll deal with negative consequences.  Even if you have to indulge in a bit of “make believe” in order to do this, do it.  For example, play up the fact that you’ll lose respect for yourself if you don’t follow through; or you might agree to give up something you love if you don’t make it happen.


3)            Then, each and every day, renew your vows.  I purposely used marriage terminology there because I want you to be married to your goal.  It’s easy to be committed you’re your goal is new and your motivation is high.  That’s the honeymoon phase.  You need to be able to maintain that commitment beyond the honeymoon – no matter what!  Each day when you awaken, read through the goal you wrote down on the first day, and stress again how vitally important it is to you.  Promise yourself that you’re going to do as much as you can to work on your goal that day, and every day until you achieve it.


When it comes right down to it, no one can achieve your goals for you.  If you aren’t committed to your own goals, somebody else will come along and commit you to theirs.  100% guaranteed!

Napoleon Hill said his book Think and Grow Rich — “Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”  If you want to achieve your goals, your vision, your dreams, you must be willing to dig down deep inside of yourself and find the determination necessary to press forward and keep going.  Inactivity and procrastination are usually nothing more than bad habits.  Turning those habits into something more positive and productive is as simple as taking it a day at a time and working your hardest to change your life.  The more committed and determined you are to making your goal happen, the more likely you’ll do just that.  Never underestimate the power of a made-up mind.  It’s an unstoppable force!

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